AGEING WELL – ARE WE THERE YET?

‘Diet, exercise, lifestyle, prevention, mindset…’ – these words were repeated over and over at the recently concluded 9th Malaysian Conference on Healthy Ageing (MCHA) organised by Malaysian Healthy Ageing Society (MHAS). So too were the more ominous words ‘cancer, diabetes, depression, dementia, death’. A total of 6 plenary sessions, 30 symposiums, 11 workshops and 5 forums. Quite a smorgasbord of topics covered in the three days. I had a tough time deciding which ones to attend. My personal copy of the daily programme was covered with ticks and crosses. I had to skip many e.g. Dr Lim Poh Hin’s ‘Smart Ageing in the Information Age’, Prof Tan Maw Pin’s ‘Falls Can Be Fatal’ and Dr Tan Hooi Chien’s ‘Volunteerism’. (View the full programme here.)

When I first received the event brochure (above) a few months ago, I was impressed by the broad coverage of topics. All this in just three days? Wow! Then I remembered the same key people had also organised the highly successful 1st World Congress 2012 at KL Convention Centre. MHAS was just a fledgling NGO then, but they proved more than capable of handling an international event. I had no doubt they would repeat their success with the 9th MCHA. The theme this time was ‘Ageing, Health and Community’. Not all the topics listed in the brochure ended up in the conference programme, but kudos to the organisers for giving the delegates so much to take away on how we can make lifestyle changes to enjoy quality of life in old age.

(Above) The organising committee with guest-of-honour Dato Mahadev Shankar (centre) after the opening ceremony.
Not only were delegates spoilt for choice of which session to attend, they were also well-fed. The daily lunch saw long queues patiently waiting to fill their plates and cups. It must have been quite a challenge to stay away from the food tables for those on weight loss programmes, or on intermittent fasting or the keto diet which some of the speakers were advocating. Chow time was also an opportunity to network and make new contacts. Most of the delegates were doctors, allied health professonals, nursing home operators, academicians and representatives from NGOs.
For folks out there who were unable to attend the conference, here’s a brief roundup of some of the sessions I attended. 
There was a lot of focus on nutrition and diet, and some confusion arising from conflicting advice on foods to avoid and foods to take. Examples: Egg yolk – good or bad for our health? Diet: Mediterranean, Okinawa or Malaysian? Is diet closely associated with ethnicity, culture, religion and geographic location? Should we follow a diet that is meant for a culture and lifestyle that is vastly different from ours? Our Malaysian diet is generally not healthy – too much sugar, salt and saturated oil. We also need to reduce our daily consumption of white rice. Opt for brown rice instead as it is healthier. Obesity is bad news for diabetes, cardio-vascular disease and stroke. Malaysia has the highest obesity rate among countries in Asia. So take heed.
Prof Gerard Bodeker’s wealth of knowledge on medicinal plants for disease prevention is truly amazing. Great to know that ulam and pegaga are on his list, and that he advocates nature therapy (e.g. forest bathing) and personalised therapy i.e.what works for you may not work for me as we are physiologically different. Dr Johan Manez had an interesting point to make on whether a plant-based diet is good for us. Based on the type of teeth we have and the way we chew when eating, he believes that our diet should have more vegetables and fruits than meat. He proposed six lifestyle changes for better health: increase physical activities, manage stress, maintain good relationships, get enough sleep, eat healthy and avoid substance abuse. . 
I agree abosolutely with Dr Wong Teck Wee in his interactive session on ‘Healthy Ageing Revolution’. To age well, we have to start early to lay the foundation. Healthy living and financial literacy should be introduced in the school curriculum. This would ensure quality of life in old age. From womb to tomb. Prevention is always better than cure. As Dato Mahadev Shankar so aptly put it: “Money is the 6th sense, for without it you can’t enjoy the other five senses”. 
Good advice from Dr Rajbans Singh regarding supplements. Check out the above five points before you purchase any supplements. Too often we listen to what our friends tell us, or believe MLM sales pitch. We end up spending huge amounts on expensive supplements that show little results. We should do some research first on the internet and find out what reputable sources say about a particular supplement and whether we really need it. 
Day 2 and 3 began with half an hour of Laughter Yoga conducted by certified LY trainer Debbie Rodrigo. Beginning with some exercises, she soon had the room filled with laughter, releasing all the endorphins and prepping the delegates for the morning sessions of both days.
We often hear the term ‘patient-centred’ used to refer to care given to patients receiving treatment in hospital settings. But what happens after they are discharged? How does a post-stroke patient, for example, deal with recovery and rehabilitation? Based on her research, occupational therapist Kim Walder believes if the patient understands and accepts his physical limitations, the journey from initial turmoil to wellbeing can be smoother for himself and his family.  
The lunch symposium on Day 2 raised quite a few eyebrows. Prof Dato Dr Hj Mohd Farouk Abdullah didn’t mince words (or images) when he spoke on ‘Sex in the Golden Years’. His message was loud and clear – older couples can still enjoy sex, with some creativity and the use of various aids. It was definitely a no-holds barred presentation that probably made many in the audience feel a little uncomfortable. Time for a change in mindset about post-menopausal sex. 
Dr Ainoriza Mohd Aini’s talk on ‘Ageing in Place: Design and Infrastructure for Healthy Ageing’ covered both home renovations and city planning. She shared about providing elder-friendly facilities for ageing safely at home and in the city. It is good to know that housing developers and town planners are now giving importance to designing for a growing ageing population. Take a walk in the city streets or visit a public housing complex, and you will agree that the government has a monumental task ahead to improve public housing and city infrastructure for all ages.
Speaking about the government, do you think it is doing enough to protect the rights of older people? Are there laws to prevent financial abuse? Should we advocate for a Maintenance of Elderly Parents Act similar to what Singapore and India have already implemented? The jury is still out on this. The general conclusion is we have laws and regulations to protect the elderly, but enforcement is poor. We already know that. 
This was one presentation I didn’t want to miss as I felt the govt should step up efforts to promote productive ageing now that healthy ageing is firmly on their radar, thanks to the positive image of Tun Dr Mahathir, 94, the world’s oldest prime minister. With the cost of living going up, not all senior citizens can afford to retire. I was glad to connect with Dr Amuthaganesh Mathialagan after his talk on ‘Entrepreneurship for Older Persons’. He was receptive to my proposal to conduct a training course on entrepreneurial skills for our warga emas.
The above sessions on Intermittent Fasting from Dr Vaikunthan Rajaratnam and Ketogenic Diet from Prof Dr Raghu Vadarajan had me wondering seriously if I should follow their advice to lose weight. Both diets seemed drastic but the doctors were themselves proof that intermittent fasting and the ketogenic diet worked for them. However, it requires mental strength and a huge amount of perseverance to stick to the diet given our love of food.
The most humorous presentation came from Dr Tan Seng Beng on ‘The Art of Dying’. If his intention was to remove the social stigma attached to talking about death, he succeeded. His wry sense of humour in dispensing advice filled the room with laughter. This was in contrast to Prof Dr Saw Aik’s talk on ‘Turn a Loss into a Gift: Silent Mentor Program’. I was quite moved when he shared about the dignity and respect shown by the medical students to the silent mentors and their bereaved families. As should be. 
Dr Lam Chee Loong spoke on ‘Resources for End of Life’ and provided a list of hospitals that provide palliative care and another list of community hospices. Most useful for families looking for end-of-life care for a loved one. Dr Yau Weng Keong’s talk was on ‘Decision Making in End-of-Life Care for Older persons’. Unfortunately I did not attend his talk. Kudos to MHAS for including these topics. It is high time society stopped viewing death as a taboo subject. Not only should we live well, we should also leave well, and that includes having a say in how we want to make our final exit. 
The final session saw Prof Dr Nathan Vityalingam explaining the differences between retirement homes, nursing homes and daycare centres. Know what to look for when visiting an aged care facility, and check whether it actually provides the services stated in their promotional materials. 

For the organisers, it was a daunting task to ensure everything went without a hitch, from making sure registration was smooth, technical problems were minimal, food was served on time and speakers turned up as scheduled. If there were hiccups, they were hardly noticeable. To the delegates it was three full days of learning, sharing and networking.

So kudos and a round of applause to the organising committee for a very successful conference. Looking forward to the next conference in 2021.

“Elder Law in Pennsylvania” 5th Edition is Published

The
Pennsylvania Bar Institute has announced the
July 2019 publication of the 5th Edition of Elder Law in Pennsylvania. The book is widely recognized as the most comprehensive treatise on
elder law in Pennsylvania. 

Elder Law focuses on the laws,
regulations and legal planning that are of critical importance to the elderly
and people with special needs. It encompasses a number of legal

PA Eliminates Inheritance tax on transfers from a Parent to Younger Children

Pennsylvania has now eliminated state inheritance tax on transfers
from a parent to or for the use of a child age 21 or younger upon the death of the
parent. This includes transfers from a natural parent, adoptive parent or
step-parent.

Pennsylvania inheritance tax is imposed as a percentage of
the value of most property transferred from a decedent at rates between 0% to
15%. The specific